Thursday, August 26, 2021


“Good morning world.. Happy Anniversary. And making that celebrating statement that has just come out of nowhere! Since celebrating an anniversary SEEMS to have NOTHING to do with anything else that I have been writing. In that clue Today, while totally changing my line of writing in an odd way. I am going to be thinking about Anniversaries. And thinking about Anniversaries I am now wondering have you ever had a Happy Anniversary day? And asking you that cool lead in yearly question, are you also wondering what an Anniversary today means to you? Well my best guess would be that means nothing too... But to me saying HAPPY ANNIVERSARY means EVERYTHING! Because I have been happily married for 50 YEARS! So, Today absolutely means everything to me! And since this is my GOLDEN 50th WEDDING Anniversary that got me thinking about the words Happy and Anniversary. Then going along our way I again started an Anniversary just one day? And what about the word Happy? Is it possible to be Happy EVERY DAY. And what all is involved with being HAPPILY MARRIED FOR 50 YEARS…Does that mean along the way there were not any fight, fears, or tears? AND here is another question too. IS IT REALLY POSSIBLE TO BE HAPPY YOUR WHOLE LIFE THROUGH? ALSO IS THERE SUCH A THING AS HAPPILY EVER AFTER TOO. Well again for me thinking about the word HAPPY. Today I am very happy. Because happily I am celebrating my Wedding Anniversary that has again brought me Happiness. And surviving the fights, tears pain, stress, tests, and fears. I love that we have been HAPPILY married for 50 YEARS! Understandably to me with the emphasis being placed on “HAPPILY” that's exciting! No I take that back, that’s really THRILLING! Because being Happy to some people is still a mystery surrounded in fear and tears! So since that is true are you asking to be clear! What does it take to be happily married for 50 YEARS! Also are you wondering if you can be HAPPILY MARRIED? And what if you are NOT MARRIED…is it possible for you to have a HAPPY ANNIVERSARY too? And looking at your calendar realizing today is NOT YOUR ANNIVERSARY DAY... Are you also wondering why you are NOT HAPPY! And feeling empty inside are you additionally wondering if it’s possible to be HAPPY. Likewise THINKING ABOUT 50 YEARS! Are you wondering what MY SECRET IS TO BEING HAPPY! So once more wondering about the celebrating dates coming early or late surrounding happiness that might not come at all. FOR YOU TO HAVE A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY. Here are some more questions for you over all! What is the secret to being happy? Where can you find that happiness key? How can you assure yourself a Happy Anniversary? And thinking that way I feel like a much better question should be!…… What does it take or what will it take out of you to be happy? Yes indeed “to be happy or not to be happy” that will always be the main conflicting nightmare, or dreamy question it seems! Therefore trying to answer that happy dilemma inquiry when everybody around you is always celebrating something, and everybody else seems so DAMN happy…. I have to ask you some more questions. Is anybody really happy in their life? Or is Happiness just another unkind lie? Okay is being happy just another heart attacking act? Is being happy an alibi?!And with everybody talking about happiness wondering who is happy. WHY ARE YOU NOT HAPPY! And...WITH YOU WANTING TO HAVE A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY AS YOU KEEP TRYING TO SURVIVE THE FEARS, TEARS, AND FIGHTS! Here is another question for you as the time is passing by....Will you ever be happy? Okay bottom line one more time what if you will never be happy with the same fat, snoring, lazy guy that you are sleeping next to, night after night. What if you find it hard to be happy fight after FIGHT! What if NOTHING IS RIGHT? What if you CAN NOT hang on? What if you are NOT THAT STRONG? What if you are UNABLE to endure the FEARS, and TEARS day and night? AND ONE MORE TIME! WHAT MAKES HAPPINESS SO HARD TO FIND! Also on the other side. What if you are a man living with the same old saggy woman, as you're watching her put on her makeup that’s not right. And 50 YEARS LATER as she is getting less attractive, while the stinky LYING creams are getting less effective day after scary wrinkled display as time passes away… What if happiness has NOT come to stay! Additionally what if you are NOT married….DOES THAT MEAN HAPPINESS WILL NEVER COME YOUR WAY? AND IF THAT IS THE CASE What then? What if you can't be happy IN YOUR PLACE? OH NO WHAT IF THERE WILL NEVER BE A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DATE? And feeling that way are you wondering will you EVER have a happy day if there is no Happily Ever After coming your way? Well the answer to ALL OF THOSE questions is THIS! It all depends on how you are trying to find your HAPPINESS. And finding HAPPINESS all depends on how you define happiness. So are you wanting to just be happy on this earth with just one person! OR are you wanting TO BE HAPPY NOW and forevermore with the LORD and the Heavenly hosts forevermore! Well as for me EVEN BEFORE I WAS MARRIED FOR 50 YEARS! I have always FOUND HAPPIENSS ON EARTH HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING MARRIED. Because TRUE HAPPINESS comes from our HEAVENLY HAPPINESS received. So yes I know having a Happy Anniversary IS GREAT FOR ME! Yes being HAPPILY MARRIED FOR 50 YEARSh will always be very special indeed! And I know our love daily NEEDS TO BE CELEBRATED! But I also know my wedding celebration pales in the presence of MY HEAVENLY HAPPILY EVER AFTER ANNIVERSARY…An ANNIVERSARY that arrived on the day I accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior. Because it has always been THE HAPPINESS I HAVE WITH IN….THAT HAS BEEN WHAT HAS KEEP ME HAPPY EVEN WHEN I WANTED TO CRY. SO YOU ASK ME HOW I HAVE STAYED HAPPY ALL OF THIS TIME. IT’S BECAUSE I KNOW JESUS CHRIST. AND IT’S BEEN MY HAPPINESS INSIDE THAT HAS MADE SURE I ENDURED THE FIGHTS. IT’S ALSO BEEN THE HEAVENLY HAPPINESS INSIDE THAT HAS MADE SURE I COULD SMILE THROUGH THE TEARS AND FEARS! BOTTOM LINE, IT’S BECAUSE OF JESUS CHRIST THAT I HAVE BEEN HAPPILY MARRIED MOST ALL OF MY LIFE! SO HERE IS SOME GREAT MARITAL ADVICE..THAT WILL HELP YOU SURVIVE.FIRST AND FORMOST FIND YOUR HAPPINESS INSIDE WITH JESUS CHRIST. SECOND FIGHT QUIET…That means if somebody picks a Fight DON’T FIGHT BACK. AND PRETTY SOON THEY WILL REALIZE THAT THEY ARE FIGHTING WITH THEM SELF. AND WHEN THEY ARE TIRED OF YELLING AT THEMSELVES THEN THEY WILL GET QUIET TOO! AND IN THE HAPPY, PEACEFUL, QUIETNESS INSIDE YOU! THAT’S WHEN YOU TOO WILL FIND THE HAPPINESS IN LIFE. AND HERE IS SOME MORE GOOD LIFE ADVICE. IN REVIEW IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY NOW AND HAPPY IN THE AFTER LIFE TOO…FIND YOUR HAPPINESS WITH JESUS CHRIST. And then you will always be HAPPY…Because no matter what happens day or night WHEN YOU LOVE JESUS CHRIST YOU TOO WILL HAVE A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DATE IN YOUR LIFE! Joslin Fitzgerald...The Mary Author…….. Happily, I know that the Above words have blessed your soul and heart with Heavenly Love. And in that Protective, Sharing, Caring Prayer, that will always be full JESUS’ Amazing Grace that is everywhere. Please additionally know every word that I am writing, is Spirit sent in its Guiding direction leading you to.... Your Prayer of Salvation……………….. Dear Jesus, I know I have done bad things in the past, and that I have done bad things today, and that I will continue to do bad things tomorrow as I am going along my way. Yes that makes me a sinner, just like everyone else in the world every day, with all of the bad things I am doing and saying. So, because I am a sinner I know I need a Savior.................... Therefore my sins and my unhappiness are why I have come to you today, as I am silently praying. Because I want to be eternally happy, and I need to be forever saved. In saying that Jesus, I believe that as Gods Holy Son, you were born on Christmas Day. I believe Jesus, that you lived a perfect life that is written down in the Bible to teach me what is wrong, and show me what is right. And I believe Jesus, in your love for me that you died on the Cross to save me from all of my sins day and night. Yes Jesus I believe you died, and defeated the grave as you arose from the dead on the third day. And right now as I accept my Salvation. I believe you are Alive forevermore and that you are living inside my heart and soul eternally night and day! Thus in believing Jesus, you are the Son of God I am asking for your forgiveness for all my sins that I know, and those I do not know that I have committed, including the ones that I will continue to daily wallow in. And as, I claim in Your Eternal Scriptural Promise in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit that I am now going to heaven. I likewise claim in my new faith this very Minute that I am SAVED FROM SATAN’S Pain. Because you died for me on the Cross, and in your arising on the third day, I know I will not go to my endless grave. In that statement that just SAVED my life! Thank you Jesus, because I am now whole since the Holy Spirit lives within my soul! Therefore in this prayer I believe that I am Born Again into Heavens sight. And in your Biblical Promise of SALVATION written in the scriptures THAT I HAVE JUST RECIEVED EVERLASTING LIFE! Thus as I am asking you to change my blind darkness, to Guiding Light you are forever MY SAVIOR, JESUS CHRIST. Amen……………………… Absolutely I pray that you have accepted Jesus Christ as your eternal guiding light, and your Savior today. I know I may never meet you here on earth as we are roaming, but if you truly prayed your prayer, to Jesus… requesting forgiveness of your sins, and asking for your Salvation you are right now this second SAVED. And I will see you when we go Away back home! And making that Saved statement as my Heavenly sister or brother…………… Thank You for reading and enjoying my blog that is being written every day… sometimes very LATE at night, through BLEARY eyes. And yes this night time writing continues to be hard for me. Because taking up to SIX HOURS AT A TIME TO WRITE EACH BLOG POST, to reach the people in the states, as well as those living overseas, this inspirational early morning writing has always been very challenging. And in that challenge WHILE UNABLE TO EDIT AFTER THE BLOG IS POSTED…to do things right, Thank You for overlooking the small typos, and tiny grammatical errors that you might find in some of my writing. By doing that, knowing just like you, I am an imperfect person too. But likewise knowing that even though I am imperfect. That JESUS CHRIST, is Perfect in his beautiful LIFE SAVING message of Heavenly Eternity! Please know you have just been sweetly prayed for. As I am also asking that you are praying for me all of the time in the same way!............. And on another note if you would like to look at and purchase my 16 Children’s Books that will teach the sweet children in your life funny, important life lessons. And to ALSO buy the coordinating Animated Audio DVD Book MOVIES that when played on your TV, computer ect, will make my one of a kind stories come alive right in front of your child’s eyes!….. Please go to my web site And in the meantime. Thank you for your prayers and support you are giving me daily. Please know that all of your sweet encouraging words and sweet emails are Uplifting my life, and my writing, as I too am praying for You night and day..…... while I am going along my Mary way………

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