Good morning world. Okay what "can you say" about marriage. Well to be clear what can you say about marriage without cussing???
And in what you Can say, what does love have to do with being happily married?
Yes I think that is a very good question, because to me love is not the most important thing about living happily.
After all we can love our plants. We love our dogs. We can love where we live. We love our views. So in those clues, is love really the most important thing in marriage?
And if love is not the most important thing what is?
Yes in what we can say and what we know….. what is something that is more important than watching love grow.
Well to me there are some other major things that are much more important in marriage to know.
Yes there are some other things that will make you happy summer to spring. And those things will also keep you happy no matter the problems life brings.
Absolutely love is important, but to know happiness, you must first base your relationship in faith found in the Lords Grace to really know what commitment is.
Second I believe that you really need to LIKE the person you are committed to. Yes to me Liking somebody is so much more important than the superficial easily broken heart disillusioned state of love.
Accordingly to me if you do not want to be Commited…. and if you want to stay out of the looney bin, and if you really want to be happily married to somebody….. you better have faith !
And in that faith you better really Like the person you are with.
In saying that Liking somebody goes way deeper than love.
Yes faith is what will take you happily along your way and Liking your significant other will make this trip a pleasant stay!
So I tell my boys everyday to stay happily married you better ground your coming relationships in Devine Faith and find your love connections direction in caring Like guided by prayer . Yes indeed you better Like the person that you are with on this journey as you are going from here to there!
Happily for me still glowing from my 25th wedding anniversary I really like the guy I am going through my life and tackling the trying trials with.
But how about you? Do You like your guy or lady too?
Can you say he or she is your best friend?
Can you say they are the one person you want to do things with?
Can you say they are the one person you want to go with around the bend?
Can you say they are the one person you want to be watching TV with side by side?
Can you say they are the one person you want to be with all of the time?
Can you say they are the one person you want to see as you close your eyes at night.
Can you say I really Like this guy or girl, and I am so blessed they are in my life! Can you say you really want to see them in the mornings light.
Can you say you are very thankful you are still married to that person, and being with them,that all is right ? Can you say they are supportive and there for you, while being faithful in all they say and do.
Can you say you are with somebody You can count on through thick and thin.
Can you say you want them there with you at the end?
Can you say you are with a person who likes you on the outside, and in that near also far view, can you say they are the same person who really sees the good deep down inside of you?
Can you say you are married to a person who sees your real beauty through the makeup, and the bald spot?
Can you say you are with somebody who really looks at you and sees the person they fell in love with 25 years ago too.
Can you say to them you have not changed one bit.
And again can you call them your best friend?
Well if you CAN say all of that, then you have happily gone way past just loving somebody,
Because in the faith found in Grace..... that takes us all to our happy heavenly place then you too have based your relationship, or marriage day and night on Like and faith.” Joslin Fitzgerald
Thank you for reading my blog please know that you have just been prayed for( as I am also asking that you are praying for me. ) In that prayer please additionally know that every word I am writing is Spirit sent in its heavenly direction leading you to....
Your Prayer of Salvation
Dear Jesus, I know I have done bad things in the past, and that I have done bad things today, and that I will continue to do bad things tomorrow as I am going along my way. Yes that makes me a sinner, just like everyone else in the world every day, with all of the bad things I am doing and saying.
So, because I am a sinner I know I need a Savior....
Therefore my sins and my unhappiness are why I have come to you today, as I am silently praying, because I want to be eternally happy, and I need to be forever saved.
In saying that Jesus, I believe that you were born on Christmas Day. I believe Jesus, that you lived a perfect life that is written down in the Bible to teach me what is wrong, and show me what is right. And I believe Jesus, in your love for me that you died on the Cross to save me from all of my sins day and night. Yes Jesus I believe you died, and defeated the grave as you arose from the dead on the third day. Yes I believe you are Alive forevermore and that you are living inside my heart and soul eternally night and day!
Thus in believing Jesus, you are the Son of God I am asking for your forgiveness for all my sins that I know, and those I do not know that I have committed, including the ones that I will continue to daily wallow in, as I claim in Your Eternal scriptural promise in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit that I am now going to heaven.
Yes I claim in my new faith this very Minute that I am saved, because you died for me on the Cross, and in your arising on the third day, I know I will not go to my endless grave. In that statement that just saved my life Thank you Jesus, I am now whole since the Holy Spirit lives within my soul!
Therefore in this prayer I believe that I am born again into heavens sight, and in your Biblical Promise of salvation written in the scriptures I have received everlasting life! Thus as I am asking you to change my blind darkness to guiding light you are forever my Savior, Jesus Christ.
Absolutely I pray that you have accepted Jesus Christ as your eternal guiding light, and your Savior today. I know I may never meet you here on earth as we are roaming, but if you truly prayed your prayer, to Jesus requesting forgiveness of your sins, and asking for your salvation you are right now this second saved. And I will see you when we go Away back home!
In saying that I also thank you for sharing in my thoughts and writing as we are going along our way as you are a huge part of my blogs heart.
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