Tuesday, August 26, 2014



"Good morning world.Are you happy or unhappy today. Well as for me I am very happy because  Happily today is my HAPPY 25TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY!

 Yes I have been happily married for 25 years! And to me with the emphasis being on “happily” married and “25 years,” that's kind of exciting for me! No I take that back, that is really exciting!


So what does it take to be happily married for 25 years? 

And a  Much better question what does it take to be happy for 25 years, or just in general what does it take to be happy?


Yes indeed “to be happy or not to be happy” that will always be the main conflicting nightmare,  dream question it seems!


Therefore trying to answer that “happy dilemma inquiry ” when everybody around you is celebrating something and seems so frigin happy…. is anybody really happy, or is that all just another lie? 

Yes is  being happy just another act? Is being happy just an alabi?!

 Okay here is another good question for you..... is it even possible to be happy?

 And can anybody be Happy ever after!

Can anybody really be happily married for 25 years, or happily married at all? 

And here is yet another good question... 



Well if you would have asked me that same “happy frigin question” 27 years ago when I was going through a sad, mad, divorce after being happily, unhappily, happily, unhappily, married for 16 years, in a consecutive happy, unhappy, happy, and happy, unhappy, marriage I would have told you…. 

 I have no idea if it was possible to be happy in a marriage, or to be happily married for 25 years.


Or to be happy at all!


Yet here I am 25 years later Happily married to my second husband and celebrating being Happy!



What if you're reading this and if you're not happy?


What if you are reading this blog and you’re not happily married, or you Don't think you are EVER going be happy with anything, or Ever be happy with the same guy that you're sleeping next to, night after night after fight. 

Okay what if you also question,  if you can be happy with the same woman, as you're watching her put on her makeup, and she is getting less attractive as the creams are getting less effective day after day after display!


What then?


What if you can't be happy?


Is there a  Happy anniversary coming for you? Will you ever have a happy day?


Well I just “threw up” a lot of interesting thoughts. And the first reflection.... circles around the possibility of ever being happy.

The second thought, is still spinning around the concept of what does it take to be happily married. 

And in my writing 

here are my thoughts on this.


In my opinion happiness comes from within, and if you are not happy with you, how can you be happy with somebody else.


Jointly in that same thought if you are not happy within, how can you make anybody else happy “without?”


Yes my friend.... life and love are like a looking glass, and what you see within is also what reflects on the outside.


So if the one standing next to you is smiling back then that means you are smiling at them and happy with you.

If the one holding your hand going along for the ride through the years is happy with you then that means you are happy with them and happy with you too.


Okay that seems easy doesn't it?

But what if you are not smiling?

What if the other one is making you cry!

What does it take to be happy as the years are going by ?

Well again you first have to be happy with you. And in order to be happy with you.... 

you first have to make yourself happy too!


Now for the big question 

How do you do that?


Well for me, since I was sixteen, I have always put the Lord first. And in my prayers prayed every day, I have found an earthly and eternal way to be happy.


Happily in my faith that grows daily from my salvation surrounding the  light around me, ( after I have learned many Hard knock life lessons) I have also found a way to be happily married.


Accordingly finding the peace and love within , that passes all understanding….. understanding that TRUE LOVE comes from heaven, then you too will be happy on this earth, and in your marriage! 

Yes that eventual happiness also includes being trapped in a bad marriage too, because sadly sometimes as WE ARE  happy with in, but others are not happy with THEM,  that means they too need to find their missing peace in order for love to live again. 

Therefore as the days are leading us each to our ultimate Happy anniversary in heaven, in Jesus forgiveness there are answers to the orginal questions 


And in your ultimate destination if love on earth does not work 

"Will you ever be Happy again ?"

And the answer is "Yes " because in our redemption found on the Cross  being saved never lost in our angelic transfer we will All be happy soon.... 

happily ever after  in the endless afternoon. ” Joslin Fitzgerald


Thank you for reading my blog please know that you have just been prayed for( as I am also asking that you are praying for me. ) In that prayer please additionally know that every word I am writing is Spirit sent in its heavenly direction leading you to....


Your Prayer of Salvation


Dear Jesus, I know I have done bad things in the past, and that I have done bad things today, and that I will continue to do bad things tomorrow as I am going along my way.  Yes that makes me a sinner, just like everyone else in the world every day, with all of the bad things I am doing and saying.


So, because I am a sinner I know I need a Savior....


Therefore my sins and my unhappiness are why I have come to you today, as I am silently praying, because I want to be eternally happy, and I need to be forever saved.


In saying that Jesus, I believe that you were born on Christmas Day.  I believe Jesus, that you lived a perfect life that is written down in the Bible to teach me what is wrong, and show me what is right. And I believe Jesus, in your love for me that you died on the Cross to save me from all of my sins day and night. Yes Jesus I believe you died, and defeated the grave as you arose from the dead on the third day. Yes I believe you are Alive forevermore and that you are living inside my heart and soul eternally night and day!


Thus in believing Jesus, you are the Son of God I am asking for your forgiveness for all my sins that I know, and those I do not know that I have committed, including the ones that I will continue to daily wallow in, as I claim in Your Eternal scriptural promise in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit that I am now going to heaven.


Yes I claim in my new faith this very Minute that I am saved, because you died for me on the Cross, and in your arising on the third day, I know I  will not go to my endless grave. In that statement that just saved my life Thank you Jesus, I am now whole since the Holy Spirit lives within my soul!


Therefore in this prayer I believe that I am born again into heavens sight, and in your Biblical Promise of salvation written in the scriptures I have received everlasting life! Thus as I am asking you to change my blind darkness to guiding light you are forever my Savior, Jesus Christ.




Absolutely I pray that you have accepted Jesus Christ as your eternal guiding light, and your Savior today. I know I may never meet you here on earth as we are roaming, but if you truly prayed your prayer, to Jesus requesting forgiveness of your sins, and asking for your salvation you are right now this second saved. And I will see you when we go Away back home!


In saying that I also thank you for sharing in my thoughts and writing as we are going along our way as you are a huge part of my blogs heart.


Therefore in the things that I am sharing I am also honored to share my books with you too as Happily the FIRST contest for my company with our FREE GIVE AWAY IS OVER. My winner has excitedly been notified and accepted her present. BUT, DONT DESPAIR, BECAUSE ANOTHER READER APPRECIATION CONTEST HAS JUST STARTED!


Happily the new contest will end the last of December 2014, Yes due to the slower than expected releases of my 4 new  books coming this year I have increased the give away. To that end the prize will now be an autographed copy of my FIRST CHILDRENS BOOK called  "AN ESCAPING PRINCESS AND A RUNAWAY  PRINCE." AND an autograhed copy of my SECOND children’s book called “A KUTE KARING KIDS KLUB” Remember All readers who previously entered, previewed, and reviewed, my books in the first contest are in this contest too.


So, to join them for the rest of the excitement  this  year entering is EASY. Just click on the TOP OF MY BLOG that says READER APPRECIATION to find MY HEART that will take you to more information OR go to my web site from here.




To find out more information on how you too can join in the fun.


To reach me: jjoslin3@att.net


To order my books from Amazon:http://amzn.to/1auDxiO


To access my web site:www.circleslegacypublishing.com


Thank you also for your prayers and support that you are giving me daily. Please know that all of your sweet encouraging words and sweet emails are Uplifting my life, and my writing, as I too am praying for You while going along my Mary way.

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